How to monitor control on demands?

[DR KOKIL AGARWAL]

Kids these days are a demanding species whose list of demands seems to be never ending. But it is the parent's duty to decide the ending point foe these endless demands.

But how? What are the best measures that can be take so as to keep these demands under control.

 

[Decentlady]

A child will ask anything that crosses their minds depending on external influences like what's been advertised on TV or what a friend or another child has.

Whether these demands are necessary or just s desire is to be determined by the parents. A torn or tight shoe is a necessity as opposed to a fancy wrist watch.

The best approach in such cases is postponing things. Since children often loose interest very soon in stuffs that were just desire, after a couple of days if a demand is still strong then may be you want to consider otherwise if you know for sure that it was just external influence then try to keep them away from that reminder.

 

[DR KOKIL AGARWAL]

A child will ask anything that crosses their minds depending on external influences like what's been advertised on TV or what a friend or another child has.

Whether these demands are necessary or just s desire is to be determined by the parents. A torn or tight shoe is a necessity as opposed to a fancy wrist watch.

The best approach in such cases is postponing things. Since children often loose interest very soon in stuffs that were just desire, after a couple of days if a demand is still strong then may be you want to consider otherwise if you know for sure that it was just external influence then try to keep them away from that reminder.

I try my best to postpone things to the best I can.But these day he simply seems to be out of any control. He can throw tantrums anywhere and to any extent if his demands are not fulfilled.